Things shouldn't be unspoken. Friends should always stay like that. Distance should always be a challenge and never a barrier. Feelings should never be taken for granted. "I love you", shouldn't be said so easily and we should hear it when listened.
Yes. Destiny should prick us more and more and teach us how to be better.
And yes. Things shouldn't be unspoken, that's why i keep on saying: I love you my friend... yesterday, today, tomorrow and forever.